David A. Morin – SocialSelf – How to Talk to People & Make Friends With Them

David A. Morin’s “How to Talk to People & Make Friends With Them” from SocialSelf is a course designed to help individuals build social confidence, improve conversation skills, and form meaningful connections. The program covers techniques for initiating and sustaining conversations, overcoming social anxiety, and developing genuine friendships. Through practical exercises and real-life strategies, participants learn to navigate social situations with ease, boost their confidence, and create lasting bonds with others. Ideal for those seeking to enhance their social skills and expand their social circle.

The only way to make friends with someone is to talk to them

But if you’re like me, your conversations didn’t lead to more than empty small talk or awkwardness rushing through your body.

Perhaps you asked people questions, and they only gave short answers, or even worse, started going on forever about themselves. Maybe you tried talking about you, and they zoned out or maybe even started judging you.

Occasionally, you felt like you had an interesting conversation – but then they never got back to you.

My stomach turns into a knot just thinking back to it.

My self-blame and self-hatred for being so terrible at forming connections made me want to scream into my pillow at night.

It’s time to move past advice that doesn’t work and learn to talk to people in a way that connects on a deep level. It’s time to learn how to talk to people and make friends with them.

“But I’m not some extrovert who likes talking to people. Do you have to pretend to be a social butterfly or something for this to work?”

No. This course is NOT about being overly social or walking up to strangers and talking to them. (That would be kinda weird, but I know that other “gurus” give this advice).

And also, welcome to the club! I’m an introvert who most often dreads shallow small talk. If you don’t like small talk, this is the course for you. Why? Because it helps you cut through all that meaningless stuff. You’ll be able to form connections and make friends with people you talk to.

This course teaches you how to talk to people you meet that you like but currently don’t know how to befriend.

Imagine if you’d been able to befriend all those people that seemed cool, but you didn’t know how to talk to…

What would your life look like today if you’d been able to build a deep, lasting connection with them? What would your day-to-day life look like if you knew them by now and had them only a text away?

That’s what this course helps you do.

Why get a course when there’s an ocean of free advice out there?

With all the advice out there, why isn’t everyone a social genius? The answer: More advice doesn’t automatically make us better.

That’s why Talk to People & Make Friends With Them isn’t another “advice-bomb”. Here’s what we do differently to give you results:

1. Instead of trying to remember 100 different things, you can just follow our system.
2. We focus on one core concept at a time and help you internalize it.
3. With my practical video examples, you get experience that no blog post or book can give you.
4. Signing up for our program means you become a part of our SocialSelf Inner Circle: Whenever you get stuck or want to discuss something, you get help from Viktor, me, and all our members who share your journey.
5. Our material is scientifically based, optimized for results, based on countless video calls with beta testers, and created together with counselors and therapists.

Advice can be good sometimes. We give a lot of advice in our free material so you can decide if our way of doing things works for you before you spend a penny.

And when you’re ready for change, we’ve got a system proven by hundreds of men and women like you who took the leap and joined our community.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

Chapter 1: How to Talk to People Without Being Weird

1. How to start a conversation (without being weird)
2. What to say to get past the small talk (and start bonding)
3. How to get a conversation going with someone (Without it feeling forced)
4. How to make your conversations lead somewhere
5. How to make conversation with someone you’ve talked to before

Chapter 2: Common Conversation Challenges

1. How to always know how much to talk and how much to listen
2. How to not suddenly be “weirdly talkative”
3. How to be noticed in groups (and be part of the conversation)
4. How to know if someone wants to keep talking with you
5. How to avoid signaling romantic interest by mistake

Chapter 3: Getting Past Small Talk and Bonding

1. How to go from small talk to personal conversation
2. What to do if your conversations feel “forced”
3. Four powerful get-to-know questions everyone should know
4. How to find things in common with people
5. Practical examples of how to make conversations with people and know what to say

Chapter 4: Conversation Anxiety and Awkwardness

1. What to do if you mess up, say the wrong thing, or are awkward
2. How to deal with awkward silence for good
3. How to speak in an interesting and engaging manner
4. What to do if you don’t know what someone talks about and feel dumb
5. How to not blank out and always know what to say