Well, two things happened.
A. I got way more analytical and methodical.
Instead of just going out and blindly stumbling from set to set, I started doing experiments in field.
I would go out with the express purpose of testing just ONE theory or tactic.
This helped completely clear my mind of all the gunk and doubt and anxiety that most guys feel.
I didn’t have to succeed at everything, didn’t have to do everything right.
I just had to concentrate on that ONE THING that I was working on that day or night.
B. I stopped thinking like a newbie.
Instead of just going out and approaching every girl in sight like an Approach Zombie.
I realized that MORE action did not equal BETTER results.
If anything, constantly running through failed sets would get me more and more in my head.
So I made a major change… I focused on her.
Instead of constantly plotting what pickup tactic I should implement next…
I decided to focus as much on the girl as possible.
What signals was she sending me?
What was she thinking and feeling?
What was she saying or not saying?